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Why I Bring a Snackle Box to Every Birth

Sep 28
8 min read

There are a few things I have learned after being around enough births to know that sometimes the most useful thing you can bring into a birth space is not some fancy piece of equipment.

Sometimes it is a snack.

Actually, sometimes it is an entire box of snacks.

Enter the snackle box.

Yes, I call it that.

Yes, I bring one to basically every birth.

And yes, the midwives have absolutely started to appreciate it šŸ˜‚

Because birth can be long. Really long. And somewhere between contractions, position changes, breathing, supporting your partner, talking through what is happening, and trying to remember when you last drank anything, eating can very easily become an afterthought.

That is where my snackle box comes in.

Why food matters during birth

Labour takes energy.

Your body is doing a pretty damn impressive amount of work, and depending on your care plan and what is happening during labour, you may be able to eat and drink throughout.

Your healthcare team can help you understand what is appropriate for you based on your individual circumstances.

But when you are in labour, the last thing I want you thinking about is whether anyone remembered to bring something you can actually eat.

Because nobody wants to be three hours into a long labour and suddenly realize the only food available is a sad granola bar that has been sitting in someone's hospital bag since 2023.

This is why I like having easy options available.

Nothing complicated.

Nothing that requires a plate, fork, knife, or a culinary degree.

Just quick little things that can be grabbed when someone needs them.

So what the hell is actually in the snackle box?

This changes a little from birth to birth, but there are a few staples that tend to make an appearance.

Energy bites

These are basically little oat balls packed with ingredients that make them easy to grab and eat quickly.

They are small, they are not messy, and you can eat one without feeling like you have just committed yourself to an entire meal.

They are also one of those things that I can make ahead of time and toss into the box so they are ready when someone needs them.

Electrolyte packs

Labour can involve a lot of sweating, movement, and fluid loss, so having electrolyte options available can be useful when they are appropriate for the person and approved by their care team.

I love the convenience of the little packets because they take up almost no space.

Add one to water and you are done.

No mixing up some complicated drink while someone is having a contraction.

Honey sticks

These little things are ridiculously convenient.

They are tiny, easy to open, and provide a quick source of carbohydrate.

They are especially nice when someone does not feel like eating a whole snack but wants something small.

And honestly, they take up basically no room in the birth bag.

Other quick snacks

Depending on the birth and what the family likes, I may also have things like crackers, fruit snacks, granola bars, applesauce, gummies, dried fruit, or other easy little options.

The goal is not to create a five course meal.

The goal is to have things available that can be grabbed quickly without interrupting everything else happening in the room.

Why I like snacks that are actually easy to eat

This might sound obvious, but when you are in labour, convenience matters.

Nobody wants to unwrap something complicated while having a contraction.

Nobody wants food that is going to leave them covered in crumbs.

Nobody wants to sit down and eat a giant sandwich halfway through active labour.

And nobody wants to stop everything they are doing just to figure out how to eat.

Small, quick, easy food is just practical.

A bite here.

A sip there.

A little something between contractions.

It is not about forcing someone to eat.

It is about making sure food is available if they want it.

That distinction is important.

The snackle box is not just for the person giving birth

This is another thing I think people forget.

Partners need food too.

Doulas need food too.

Midwives need food too.

Birth workers are not magical creatures who survive exclusively on caffeine and adrenaline.

Okay, maybe sometimes we do.

But ideally, we eat.

If you have ever been at a birth that goes on for twelve, fifteen, eighteen, or more hours, you know exactly what I mean.

The birthing person may be getting little bits of food and drink throughout.

Meanwhile, their partner has been sitting beside them for hours thinking, ā€œI will eat when things calm down.ā€

Spoiler alert.

Things may not calm down for a while.

So I like having enough little things around that the whole support team can grab something when they need it.

And yes, the midwives may occasionally benefit from the snackle box too.

I am not saying that is why they love me.

But I am also not saying it isn't.

Long labours are where the snackle box really earns its keep

There is something about the middle of a long labour where everyone starts getting a little tired.

The excitement of ā€œthis is happening!ā€ has worn off.

The contractions are getting harder.

Everyone has been awake for who knows how long.

The partner is tired.

The birthing person is exhausted.

The doula is running on whatever snacks she remembered to eat.

And suddenly someone realizes that nobody has eaten in hours.

This is where having easy food already available can make things just a little easier.

You do not need to stop and make a full meal.

You do not need to leave the room searching for something.

You can grab an energy bite.

Have some water.

Mix an electrolyte drink if appropriate.

Eat a honey stick.

Take a breath.

Then get back to whatever is happening.

Sometimes the smallest practical things can make a surprisingly big difference during a long birth.

And then there is the postpartum exhaustion

This is probably my favourite reason for having the snackle box around.

Because the baby arrives and everyone thinks the work is done.

Except...

It isn't.

You have just given birth.

You are exhausted.

You may be hungry.

You may be thirsty.

You may be sweaty, emotional, shaky, overwhelmed, euphoric, completely exhausted, or somehow all of those things at once.

And now there is a tiny human who needs you.

Those first few hours after birth can be a lot.

So if I can hand someone a snack while they are settling in with their baby, I am going to.

If I can make sure their partner has something to eat while they are helping with the baby, I am going to.

If I can quietly refill someone's water bottle without them having to ask, I am going to.

This is the kind of support that does not necessarily look dramatic.

But it matters.

Birth support is about the little things too

When people think about birth doulas, they often picture things like massage, breathing techniques, position changes, hip squeezes, and emotional support.

And yes, absolutely.

I do all of those things.

But sometimes being a good doula also means noticing that your client has not eaten in six hours.

It means noticing their water bottle is empty.

It means making sure their partner has had something to eat.

It means knowing when to quietly offer something rather than asking twenty questions.

It means paying attention to the little things that can get lost when everyone is focused on the big things.

That is one of my favourite parts of doula work.

I get to support the whole person.

Not just the labouring body.

Not just the birth.

The human being going through it.

I am a full spectrum doula, which means I care about the whole picture

This is something that comes up throughout my work.

My role is not just to stand beside someone while they give birth.

My Birth and Postpartum SupportĀ services are about supporting families through the whole experience.

That can mean helping someone prepare for birth, providing continuous labour support, helping with comfort measures, supporting partners, navigating changes to the birth plan, and then continuing into those early postpartum hours and days.

Food is a tiny part of that bigger picture.

But it is a really important one.

Because sometimes care looks like a deep conversation about birth preferences.

Sometimes it looks like helping someone find a comfortable position.

And sometimes it looks like saying, ā€œHere, eat this.ā€

This is also where Meg's Meals comes in

If you have been around my website for a while, you may have seen Meg's Meals.

This is another part of my business that comes from the same belief that food is care.

When you are pregnant, postpartum, recovering, feeding a baby, working, parenting, and trying to function like a normal human being, cooking three meals a day can feel absolutely impossible.

Sometimes what you need is someone else to take food off your plate.

Literally.

My Meg's Meals offerings are designed around making nourishing food more accessible during pregnancy and postpartum, whether that means meals for a few days, stocking the freezer, or getting some help with individual meals.

Because nobody should be expected to recover from birth while simultaneously becoming a short order cook.

The snackle box is not a medical intervention

Obviously, my snackle box is not replacing medical care, nutrition advice, or anything your healthcare provider recommends.

What someone can safely eat and drink during labour depends on their individual circumstances, care setting, and medical situation.

Your midwife, doctor, or hospital team should always be the ones guiding you if there are restrictions or concerns around eating and drinking.

My job is simply to make sure that when food and fluids are appropriate, there are easy options available.

I am there to support.

Not prescribe.

Not diagnose.

Not play doctor.

Just feed people.

Which, honestly, is one of my favourite things to do.

The snackle box might be one of the most Maighen things I do

I have fancy cameras.

I have birth bags.

I have educational resources.

I have all the normal doula things.

And yet, one of the things I get the most excited about is packing a box full of snacks.

Because it is practical.

It is thoughtful.

It is useful.

And it is one of those little things that says, ā€œI thought about you before I got here.ā€

That is really what it comes down to.

I want my clients to know that I am thinking about more than just the birth itself.

I am thinking about whether they have eaten.

Whether they have had water.

Whether their partner has eaten.

Whether they are comfortable.

Whether they need a minute.

Whether they need encouragement.

Whether they need someone to remind them that they are doing a really damn good job.

And if that means showing up with an absurdly well stocked snackle box every time, then so be it.

The midwives can have their snacks too.

I am generous like that.

If you are preparing for birth and want to talk more about what continuous birth support can actually look like, you can check out my Birth and Postpartum SupportĀ page here on the Prairie Lily Doula and Photography website.

You can also explore my Perinatal EducationĀ services if you want to spend some time preparing for labour, birth, and those first days with your baby.

And if you are already thinking, ā€œOkay but who is feeding ME after this baby comes out?ā€ then definitely go check out Meg's MealsĀ too.

Because yes, your baby needs you.

But you also need to eat.

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